Compassionate Cafe
What Happens When You Come to the Lighthouse Compassionate Café?
When you arrive at the Lighthouse Compassionate Café, one of our volunteer Compassionate Friends will welcome you and offer you a tea or coffee, usually accompanied by the all-important choice of biscuits or cake.
We will take the time to chat with you and help you feel comfortable. You may choose to join the group conversation straight away, where people often share stories, thoughts and experiences, or if you prefer, you can have a quieter chat with a volunteer. The choice is entirely yours. There is no pressure to speak, share, or participate in any particular way. We simply want you to feel comfortable and supported.
For those who would like a more private conversation, we also have access to a separate safe space in a private room where one-to-one discussions can take place away from the main group. This can be particularly helpful if you would prefer a quieter environment or wish to discuss something personal.
Our conversations vary from week to week. Sometimes we talk about everyday topics such as family, hobbies, local events, or how the week has been. Occasionally, people share memories of loved ones they have lost or speak about supporting someone living with a life-limiting illness. Tears may be shed, and that is perfectly okay. You will be among people who understand, have experienced similar situations, or are walking a similar path themselves.
We are not counsellors or therapists. We are Compassionate Friends. Our role is not to fix problems but to listen, acknowledge, and support. We believe that feeling heard and understood can make a real difference.
No one will ever be expected to share anything personal. Some people come simply to listen, enjoy the company of others, and spend time with people who "get it." Everyone engages in their own way and at their own pace.
For those who enjoy being creative, we also provide a variety of arts and crafts activities. These are completely optional and can offer a gentle focus while chatting, listening, reflecting, or simply spending time with the group.
Having been running successfully for over 18 months, the Lighthouse Compassionate Café has developed into a welcoming and supportive community. We continue to value new ideas, suggestions, and feedback from everyone who attends, helping us ensure the café remains a place that meets the needs of those who use it.
There is no need to book. Simply come along and see how you find it. There is no obligation to stay for the full two hours, and no expectation that you attend every week. Come as often, or as little, as feels right for you.
If you feel nervous about coming on your own, one of our volunteers can arrange to meet you outside and accompany you in. Just send us a message, email trevor.hatcher@nhs.net, or contact the Lighthouse Centre on 01579 641669.
Find Us
Lighthouse Compassionate Café
Bell House, Church Street
Liskeard, PL14 3AG
Every Monday, 10:00am - 12:00pm
(excluding Bank Holidays)
You can find local Compassionate Cafes here: https://www.stlukes-hospice.org.uk/compassionatecafes/